Fantasia, I am new to watching your show and I feel so bad for you. I know you can never TAKE another man or woman from ANYONE. People need to take responsibility for their own flaws. WE all have them and I am sure she has flaws of her own to deal with. DO NOT take on others issues into your own world. Watch yourself and your child. Be Strong, Be Happy you have your whole beautiful life ahead of you! DON"T LET THEM SEE YOU CRY! They take joy in that. Pick that beautiful head of yours up and strut your stuff like you know best. The man above has your back and you know that....